28 years of marriage and my husband tells me he wants a divorce

In the beginning, I was self-medicating (drinking), but I eventually went to a doctor and did some intense therapy to help me recover from the pain. Although I started dating again, it wasn’t for me. So, instead, I focused on myself – prayed and write down my feelings. I even lost weight. Over time, people who chose him over me realized that his words didn’t match his actions. I am better without him in my life.